Focus on The Things You Can Control
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One of the most important things I have learned in my adult life is how to focus on the things you can control.
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You canβt control what happens to you, but you can control how you respond to what happens to you.
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The latter is the key to becoming successful, especially when it comes to your money.
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As a wealth builder, we must focus on what we can control. If you focus on the things that happen to you outside of your control, you will never get ahead.
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A massive example is the environment you are born in.
Unfortunately, privilege is real.
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If you are born into a bad situation, youβve been dealt cards that you have no control over.
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You have two options: allow your environment to become who you are, or learn from the mistakes in your environment and work on getting out of that situation.
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Your response to the bad things in your life will save you.
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You go into debt because a car broke down.
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You can blame the lemon of a car and the manufacturer, or you can make sure that it never happens again by saving cash.
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You bought a stock and it goes to zero.
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You can blame the market, or decide Iβm going to learn how the rich get wealthy in a safe way.
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Your spouse has tens of thousands of dollars in student loans.
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You can blame them for their decisions, or help them develop a plan that will get your family out of debt.
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Your response will dictate your outcome in life. It is worth its weight in gold to learn how to respond accordingly to life.